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Article: How The Internet Is Changing The Way We Communicate With Each Other

How The Internet Is Changing The Way We Communicate With Each Other

Language and communication are needed to form human connections. These are our tools to make other people understand what we want to say, how we feel, or where we want to go. When we understand what each one is saying, a connection is formed that can develop into meaningful relationships. Even in this digital age, humans still crave for connections and developing meaningful relationships with other people. After all, man is a social being. The scientist Matthew Lieberman said that our need to connect with others was as essential as our basic need for food and water. He said that our well-being depended on our connection with other people. Over the past years, social media have revolutionized how we connect and communicate with others. By definition, social media are forms of electronic communication where people can form online communities to connect with each other and share information, ideas, and messages, among others. Popular social media platforms are Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and LinkedIn. These channels make it possible for a person to create an online profile and connect with family, friends, and colleagues. We can send messages, post videos, and photos, and share the statuses of their lives and relationships.

When used properly, social media can enhance human connections. These channels allow a person to express himself and share his feelings through his posts. Social media also help people maintain contact with family and friends and make new connections that can be beneficial in personal and professional levels. But we must always keep in mind that even in social media, the rules for expression and editing still apply. We must present ourselves properly in social media. Some have become so careless with their words and grammar that they seem to forget that their posts are also a reflection of their knowledge and abilities. May this be a reminder for everyone to be mindful of what they post and how they use words to express themselves.


On Listening

On Listening

Communication can both be a simple and complex mental process. It often involves two or more people that attempt to share thoughts and ideas with each other. As William Hazlitt said, the art of conversation was the art of hearing as well as of being heard. This quotation emphasizes the importance of listening. Listening is a skill that enables the listener to receive and interpret what the speaker wants to say, and then being able to provide an appropriate response. This seems simple enough if the speaker and listener are on the same level of interest or understanding on the topic. However, it becomes complex when there are other factors at work that hinder the transfer of ideas between the speaker and the listener.

You see, for effective listening to happen, a chunk of the burden falls on the speaker. For example, if the construction of the message of the speaker is poorly structured or too vague to understand, then there will be a problem in the communication process. It is where distorted listening occurs. Listeners will be confused and it is difficult to understand what the speaker wants to convey. When barriers to communication are caused by the speaker, the listeners will resort to pseudo listening where they just pretend to listen but their thoughts are actually somewhere else. The speaker has failed to get their focus and attention and therefore, would find it hard to convey his message.

The speaker should be equipped with the elements of expression so that he or she could draw out from what the listener already knows and his or her level of understanding. That is why it is important to know the right words to say to catch the listener’s attention and get to his level of understanding so that there can be an effective communication between the two.